一、每一夜都能干干净净，心安理得筋疲力尽地入睡，每一天也能清清爽爽，心平气和精神充沛地醒来，这就是最好的生活。
It's the best life to be clean every night, to fall asleep exhausted with peace of mind, to wake up fresh, calm and energetic every day.
二、车子有油，手机有电，卡里有钱，这就是安全感，指望别人都是扯淡。再牛逼的副驾驶，都不如自己紧握方向盘。
The car has oil, the cell phone has electricity, and Cary has money. That's the sense of security. It expects others to be bullshit. No matter how hard the co-driver is, it's better to grip the steering wheel by himself.
三、什么是完美？就是耳机音量刚好能盖过外界噪音，闹钟响起时你刚好自然醒，你爱的人刚好也爱你。
What is perfect? It's the volume of the headphones that just covers the outside noise. When the alarm clock rings, you just wake up naturally, and the person you love just loves you.
四、无论你在哪个年龄段，我想我们都应该学会对身边的人温柔一些，至少说出来的话不要给别人添堵，因为你可能不知道，语言真的有一种神奇的力量，它会让你爱的人爱你，也会让爱你的人决定离开你。
No matter what age you are, I think we should all learn to be gentle with the people around us, at least not to add to others by saying things, because you may not know that language really has a magical power, it will let the person you love love love love you, will also let the person who loves you decide to leave you.
五、做不了决定的时候，让时间帮你决定。如果还是无法决定，做了再说。宁愿犯错，不留遗憾。When you can't make a decision, let time decide for you. If you still can't decide, do it again. Better make mistakes than regret.
六、越长大就越发觉，最离不开的还是家人，不求多富贵，我要我的家人都无痛无病无灾，身体健康就很好了。
The older I grow up, the more I realize that the most important thing I can do is to have my family. I don't want to be rich or rich. I want my family to be painless, disease-free and healthy.
七、渐渐的知道了，很多东西可遇而不可求，不属于自己的，何必拼了命去在乎，你在意什么，什么就会折磨你，期待是所有心痛的根源。
Gradually learned that many things can be met but not sought, do not belong to their own, why desperately care about, you care about what, what will torture you, expectation is the root of all heartache.
八、人，永远不会珍惜三种人：一是轻易得到的；二是永远不会离开的；三是那个一直对你很好的。但是，往往这三种人一旦离开就永远不会再回来。
People will never cherish three kinds of people: one is easy to get; the other is never to leave; and the third is that it has always been good for you. But often these three people will never come back once they leave.
九、不必太纠结于当下，也不必太忧虑未来，当你经历过一些事情的时候，眼前的风景已经和从前不一样了。
Don't be too obsessed with the present or worry about the future. When you experience something, the scenery is different from the past.
十、和谁都别熟得太快，不要以为刚开始话题一致，共同点很多，你们就是相见恨晚的知音。语言很多时候都是假的，一起经历的才是真的。
Don't get acquainted with anyone too quickly. Don't think that the topic is the same at the beginning. There are many things in common. You are the intimate friends who hate meeting late. Language is often false, and what we experience together is true.
十一、很多关系，不是老的好，也不是新的好，而是一起经历了一些事之后，你还真切的觉得对方挺好，这才是值得你去认真对待和掏心窝子的关系。
Many relationships are not good old or new, but after some experiences together, you really feel that the other party is good, which is the relationship that deserves your serious attention and heart.
十二、一些该拿起的要拿起，一些该舍弃的要舍弃。因为，只有让该结束的结束了，该开始的才会开始。
Some should be picked up, some should be abandoned. Because, only let the end of the end, the beginning will begin.
十三、无论你遇见谁，他都是你生命该出现的人，绝非偶然，他一定会教会你一些什么。所以我也相信：无论我走到哪里，那都是我该去的地方，经历一些我该经历的事，遇见我该遇见的人。
No matter who you meet, he's the right person in your life. It's no accident. He'll teach you something. So I also believe that wherever I go, it's my place to go, to experience something I should experience, to meet the people I should meet.
十四、人生是一本书，封面是父母给的，内容是自己写的，厚度由本人决定，精彩程度可以自己创造。Life is a book, the cover is given by parents, the content is written by oneself, the thickness is decided by oneself, the magnificence can be created by oneself.
十五、大喜大悲看清自己，大起大落看清朋友。没有一个足够宽容的心，就看不到一个春光明媚的世界。Great joy, great sorrow, see yourself, great ups and downs, see friends. Without a tolerant heart, we can't see a bright spring world.
十六、永远都要活给自己看，而且笑容要特别灿烂，别在乎别人的指指点点，做好你自己，让看不起你的人高攀不起，让看得起你的人更喜欢你。
Always live for yourself, and the smile should be particularly brilliant, don't care about other people's advice, do yourself well, so that those who look down on you can not climb up, so that those who look up to you like you more.
十七、太过迁就别人，别人就会变本加厉的为难你；太过忍让别人，别人就会得寸进尺的伤害你。事实上你所遇见的人，多数都是被你的“好”给惯出来的。
Too much accommodation will make others more difficult for you; too much tolerance will make others hurt you inch by inch. In fact, most of the people you meet are accustomed to your "good".
十八、来生，想做一朵蒲公英，无牵无挂，无欲无求，起风而行，风静而安。不乱于心，不困于情，不畏将来，不念过去，如此，安好。
In the next life, I want to be a dandelion, without concern, without desire or desire. I want to walk in the wind, quiet and peaceful. Don't be confused in the heart, don't be trapped in the feelings, don't fear the future, don't think about the past, so, well.
十九、决定放弃了的事，就请放弃得干干净净。那些决定再也不见面的人，就真的不要见面了。请不要让我再做背叛自己的事了。如果要爱别人，就请先好好爱自己。
If you decide to give up, please give up cleanly. Those who decide never to meet again really don't want to meet. Please don't let me betray myself any more. If you want to love others, please love yourself first.
二十、不要期待，不要假想，不要强求，顺其自然，如果注定，便一定会发生。心安，便是活着的最美好状态。
Don't expect, don't imagine, don't demand, let it be, if destined, it will happen. Peace of mind is the best state of being alive.
